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When love is ordered from consciousness, everyone finds their space. And since I come from the future, you come first, you can get divorced if you choose, your children grow up, if self is a priority, everything around us will be fine, in balance, and it's not selfishness, on the contrary it's being our best version.

Of course we call it love because we didn't know something better. I say this, because it is easier to get confused with the bonds and emotions than it seems, we can believe that some of what they gave us was love, only because they paid attention to us and gave us the minimum, of it.

This is WHY it is SO IMPORTANT to LIVE, to have experiences that help us to know when something is love, when it is attention, desire or even indifference. Because the borders of the human are much more complex than black and white.

Many years ago my mom told me something that was going to mark my life: if you don't return love with love, it doesn't matter if we are a family, or even if I am your mother, that love dries up and ends.

That was being told to me by my mother, who is supposed to love you even if you suck, and no, she was giving me an important lesson in my life. Love has to be reciprocal.

I was just a 14-year-old girl when she told me that, and it impacted me in such a profound way. Today, I remember that and I realize that perhaps thinking about that I started at the university at the age of 16, I had just finished high school, to study the industrial relations career, to analyze and deal with these intrinsically human issues.

Conclusion? Love has to be demonstrated with deeds, actions, acts, and not just words, and don't think that because we are family we are going to be loved just for that fact.

Love must always become a process determined by actions and reciprocity.

In my experience, love nourishes, it makes you grow and if they paid attention to us it looks like what the other had left over... If you are going to love, do it with everything. Nothing about loving half-heartedly. As the song says love is paid with love! Performed by Jorge Negrete.

On our journey through life, we will meet many people, but the most valuable are those who show us kindness and generosity. Every act of kindness towards others and ourselves adds up, many times we despise the little things we do; but it is from these little great things that our soul, our body is nourished and we contribute to making the world a better place when what we receive we give to others.

I always wish good to others even if it costs me, many times. May we always find kind souls who brighten our days with their warmth and compassion.

With love,

Janitze. 🌹